WHAT A  GREAT CALLING.. Lately been thinking through my greatest calling, Parenting and decided to ponder pretty much and yes i want to ponder right there.   Outside my house i am an excellent Director, public speaker,couch and a consultant in many things, inside my house when i assume my role as a mother and wife these roles have a way of making me feel horrible and bringing the worst out of me. well i guess this is where the rubber meets the road.  I see little children born sinners, without being taught how to do bad they assumed the role very early. ideally i am supposed to respond to their disobedience, rebellion and immaturity. How? That is where i need God to help me in, i easily react not respond to them.  how do i separate their behavior from their hearts? I love their hearts but not their behavior, oh that i would learn separating the bad behavior and deal with this heart that i love.  Simply i need a box to see the behavior and throw it i...

As usual coming from work traffic is one thing that makes me meditate upon life. Yesterday was a special one. Through my window I could not help it but see a baby who was having loud groans,just to see clearly that i was shockingly  mistaken. The baby so excited and full of laughter as the young mother tickled and made all faces. My neighbour who was a young man looked on as well. Then he broke the silence and exclaimed, life is so unfair! I waited on, he then said see that street mother enjoying her baby in the streets. Others look for babies in vain but also when they get them they get lost in the business of looking for money and they can't enjoy the babies. They leave househelps to enjoy them. Even in big houses the babies don't experience their mothers love, this one is experiencing it at the streets. As he continued on and on I thought how life can be a paradox. Those who have enough look for more just like wind chase and chase to attain more and they loose the mea...

HOPE &  JOY PASSED ON .  I received an email from F.k Norway asking if I could identify vulnerable women and girls and give them some clothes that were donated by a mother who lost her daughter in Norway , and my answer was yes I will ,after all we work with a lot of those in Shalom community project. Shalom is an initiative of Robert and Gillian who after 1 year in Norway and being exposed to high level of development decided that they can do something small to change one life in their community. Afrika is not just a continent but its our brothers sisters, cousins etc... After some years now we have women and youth empowerment programs, a children project of 45 vulnerable poor children and  a small health Centre that meets the needs of the community.  Then  I received the new clothes and we identified some widows, orphans and needy women in the community and below are the smiles and excitement that this brought. One woman shed tea...

10 YEARS LATER 10 years later I came to Norway and lots of things ad changed , but for real the weather hadn't changed an I seem to have forgotten how cold it could become in this country. This didn't change Finn and Torstein visiting me ohh this is the same my sweet friend who didn't change she is still sweet. Norwegian frokost,,, same brown cheese my favorite afrikan night at my friends house ,,, meeting new people church,, snow snow  my Swedish friend visited my old good friend Marie ohh this girls I held them 10 years ago ,, haha the store remains my neighbourhood my host couple after 10 years they are still strong and in love Finn , Roberts good friend this two girls I loved and I met them frozen is the word see sweetness and yeah courtesy call to a Ugandan friend Gillian meets Solvor lets travel ohhh memories are made of this ,, ohhhhh I misses NORWAY Freezing in the tr...