I was born 33 years ago, and as I grew up, I did not remember seeing a man or father at home, and I grew up knowing that my Dad worked far but he exists. I needed to know that he wasn’t dead actually, he existed. My mum always explained and spared us terminologies like Divorce, and so she always said that our Dad was working far and it wasn’t clear if we should wait for him or not. The truth was that he was actually working for, but he was never going to come. As I grew up, I understood that they had separated from my Dad, and she had moved to another town.  She kept telling us that we had a dad, and he would tell us his name  and that we should not behave like we don’t have a dad. She always said that their misunderstanding with  Dad should not affect us. ''Our stories should not affect your stories,''  she said. She also made us use our Dads name in all our documents and school work and that reduced the questions from school teachers, Sunday schoo...

ITS BEEN SO LONG SINCE I BLOGGED AND I HAVE TO SAY YAH ITS BEEN SOME LONG YEAR AND AM BACK I HOPE YES I AM BACK AND NOW ITS GONNA BE MORE STUFF..

HEY ITS BEEN LONG SINCE I WROTE MY BLOG .. WELL ITS BECAUSE OF THE SEASON I AM IN IN MY LIFE ,,, I HAVE STUDIES AND WORK AND YAH ITS GETTING BUSY DAILY

its been few months of settling down and i have to accept that events have caught me up ,, and i feel so overwhelmed by thigs am working and studying and that means alot to me ,, well i am doing well at the same time and yah not soooo badly ,,,,,, this is gillian yah its meeee

LIFE IN NORWAY FOR THE LAST DAYS IS SO GREAT ESPECIALLY THE FACT THAT THERE IS SO MUCH SUN ,,,, OOHH ITS SUMMER TIME NOW ,,, WAAA WELL SOON AM HOME..... AND YAH I WANT TO MEET MY FAMILY SO BADLY AND YAH ,, AND MA FRIENDS

well this is a typical african dressing and the other is a traditional Norways national dress,,,, mmmmmm its alot of things happening around me right now and yah its abit hard even trying to express myself ,, its fun to debrief since soon am home so its been very busy and alot to do. but one of the greatest highlights is the 17th may ,, Norways independent day ohh this day was marked with alot of colour and warmth,, all over sudden the city am living in had sooo many pple coming for the parade ,, well the best was that they were all dressed with their national costume ,, yah its very great i think ,,, yah i think alot of my thinking has been challenged and yah its not easy anymore for me ,, yet am enjoying each bit of the beuty of spring ,, yep its very beutifull and great ,,i love it ,,